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Act Two: The Wait

In screenwriting, it’s often said that Act Two is the hardest to write. The first act sets everything up–you meet the characters, see the "before" picture, discover a problem. The third act is the action-pack resolution. Misunderstandings are resolved, identities revealed, foes defeated, the guy finally gets the girl. But oh, how I hate Act Two.

In screenwriting, it’s often said that Act Two is the hardest to write. The first act sets everything up–you meet the characters, see the "before" picture, discover a problem. The third act is the action-pack resolution. Misunderstandings are resolved, identities revealed, foes defeated, the guy finally gets the girl. But oh, how I hate Act Two.

Act Two is the in-between–filled with conversations rather than car chases, research rather than resolution. It’s the home of the montage when the writer wants to skip the "growing relationship phase". It’s the period between the set-up and the climax.  It’s the waiting. 

I’m not a fan of waiting–I don’t want a second act. I want Abraham and Sarah to get pregnant right after God’s announcement. I want David to rule immediately. I want to hurry up and get to the good part now. 

But most of life, of faithfulness, is in Act Two.  The calling’s heady. The fulfillment is action-packed. But character is made and revealed in between.

Each time I enter Act Two, I’m taken off guard (I’m a slow learner). The wait, the delayed gratification, the waning of adrenaline surprises me. "But God, I thought we were going to do this now…" It’s a let down, and it’s harder. When God calls me to something, I screw up my courage and resolve and I’m ready to go. Right then. Anytime now. Let’s go. I feel like a racehorse before the gate’s lifted. My excitement could carry me all the way through.

But God doesn’t want excitement. He wants obedience. And so He lets the excitement get a little stale, lets the new-call smell dissipate. He calls us to a less exhilarating obedience–that daily walk of faithfulness. 

In Act Two, He calls us to trust Him to do what He said He’d do. If our lives were a movie, this would be the montage of us learning, day after day, to stop forcing the plan and to let God be God. In my personal montage, you’d see me learning to stop running into doors that aren’t open yet (and to stop trying to pick the lock). Consistency, trust, patience isn’t riveting, but it is obedience. 

Welcome to Act Two.

Ps 33:22 

Laura Singleton’s passion is the transformation that happens when women get access to God’s Word and God’s Word gets access to women. She was twenty-five when her life was turned upside down by an encounter with Jesus Christ. With an insatiable thirst for scripture and theology, she soon headed to Dallas Theological Seminary to learn more about Jesus, and left with a Th.M. with an emphasis in Media Arts. She, along with two friends from DTS, travel the nation filming the independent documentary Looking for God in America. She loves speaking and teaching and is the author of Insight for Living Ministry’s Meeting God in Familiar Places and hundreds of ads, which pay the bills. Her big strong hubby Paul is a former combat medic, which is handy since Laura’s almost died twice already. She loves photography, travel and her two pugs.

2 Comments

  • Mel

    Oh the waiting!! Can’t I
    Oh the waiting!! Can’t I just have a 2 minute montage with upbeat 80s music??? That would be so much better.

    Great post again!!!

  • Ben

    Waiting
    Isn’t that the truth. Waiting is sometimes the most difficult thing. There’s a verse in Psalm 130 that’s one of my favorites. “My soul waits for the Lord more than the watchmen wait for morning.” It’s such a great word picture, and I definitely feel like a watchman at times, sitting alone in a cold tower, just waiting for the first few rays of dawn. Thanks for the great post!