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I have to take this week to publicly praise my husband, Jonathan – my first ministry.

Jonathan, thank you for being a hero to me. Thank you for working hard to provide for us, and to make broken things heal. Thank you for letting me cry, and never despising my tears.

Thank you for consistently choosing to be on the same team with me, especially when I treat you like we’re not.

I have to take this week to publicly praise my husband, Jonathan – my first ministry.

Jonathan, thank you for being a hero to me. Thank you for working hard to provide for us, and to make broken things heal. Thank you for letting me cry, and never despising my tears.

Thank you for consistently choosing to be on the same team with me, especially when I treat you like we’re not.

I love the ooey-gooey way you talk to our doggie, because you adore her. This week, you made me drink Superfood because of all the nutrients in it. You let me lay down and try to sleep and never complained about my obnoxiously loud nose-blowing sessions.

You made sure I went back to the doctor.

You fed me.

Before anyone else called back or cared as much, you did what you could to fix the gas leak in the house. It was hard, sweaty work, and you did it with joy.

There are circumstances that hurt my heart last week that only you and God know about. And I am safe with both of you.

When you say "it’s going to be okay," I’m beginning to believe you.

Thank you for giving me the space to be weak. I am not alone. It’s not all up to me. It will get done even if I don’t do it.

You have been the lifter of my head.

I see you. I see your heart. I love you. I am so blessed that you are my husband.

Song of Songs 5:10-16

Sharifa Stevens is a Manhattan-born, Bronx-raised child of the King, born to Jamaican immigrants, and currently living in Dallas. Sharifa's been singing since she was born. Her passion is to serve God's kingdom by leading His people in worship through music, speaking and writing, and relationships with people. Her heart is also unity, inspired by John. Sharifa hates exercise but likes Chipotle, bagels with a schmeer and lox, salmon sushi, chicken tikka, curried goat (yeah, it's good) with rice and peas, and chocolate lava cakes. She's been happily married to Jonathan since 2006...and he buys her Chipotle.

3 Comments

  • Aletha Miller

    Response to sharifa stevens letter to her husband
    I am grateful to hear a woman publically praise her husband. As women of God we often forget to do this and wonder why our husbands won’t listen or do certain things for us. I try to do this often also, but it is so nice to know that there are other Christian women who do the same. Thank you for setting an example. I will be praying for you and your marriage. Please do the same for me and my wonderful ,God-fearing husband, Raymond D. Miller, as well.