“People are always telling me that change is a good thing. But, all they're really saying is that something you didn't want to happen at all has happened.” Kathleen Kelly from the movie,  You've Got Mail Grief is a bizarre thing. It always comes unexpectedly, whether you are waiting for it or not. Something out of your control, extremely unfair happens that affects your life and in the end, something very precious is lost. Loss equals grief. Maybe it is something you hoped and prayed would happen and it didn’t. Or, maybe it is something you prayed wouldn’t happen, but it did. Have you ever done that? (You can fill in the…