5 1/2 years ago I wrote a blog post called “What Not to Say When Someone is Grieving.” With almost 40,000 page views, it is clearly a subject that touches a lot of people. I’m re-publishing it today, but I invite you to read the original post so you can see the amazing, jaw-droppingly painful comments people shared. And I hope it will help YOU know what to say when a friend is hurting. It may be insensitivity or a lack of education that spurs people to say things that are unhelpful at the least and downright hurtful much of the time. I still remember my own daggers to the…