Heartprints

A Message to Parents about Their Kids Salvation!

When I was a kid, I believed in Santa Clause, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy.  I believed in Ghosts, boogie men and I even had an imaginary best friend named Mr. Catow (my mom and sister are giggling right about now).  I believed in the impossible and I believed in all the irrational things that most normal kids believe in. 

For the most part parents – So did you!

So why parents do you think it’s so hard for us to believe that our children believe in God, creation, and God’s plan of redemption with the death, burial and resurrection of His son Jesus? 

When I was a kid, I believed in Santa Clause, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy.  I believed in Ghosts, boogie men and I even had an imaginary best friend named Mr. Catow (my mom and sister are giggling right about now).  I believed in the impossible and I believed in all the irrational things that most normal kids believe in. 

For the most part parents – So did you!

So why parents do you think it’s so hard for us to believe that our children believe in God, creation, and God’s plan of redemption with the death, burial and resurrection of His son Jesus? 

Why do we have such a hard time believing our kids would listen to all of that info in and not only believe it but ultimately pray a prayer securing their salvation (and mean it)?

I’ll tell you why!

As adults we have a hard time believing in imaginary things because we all found out that all of those things we believed in as kids ended up not being real…except Santa Clause of course – wink, wink! Combine that with fact that most of us grow up learning that it’s socially unacceptable for adults to believe in irrational and imaginary things and it’s a wonder that any of us have a faith at all.

ALSO – we can’t believe that our kids can have a faith because we live with them and we ask – how on earth can the same kid that picks his/her nose, runs through the house while screaming (for no reason) and says things that make absolutely no sense —  believe in all that crazy Jesus stuff? 

I’ll tell you how!

THEY ARE JUST KIDS…and just like you when you were a kid –THEY JUST DO! That’s why Jesus loves them so much!  While on the earth Jesus had the opportunity to tell us why we need to have child-like faith:   Jesus said, "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 18:2).

Parents – Please don’t doubt your kid’s faith!  That’s not to say you can’t question what their faith consist of but if your kids can believe the Gospel and God’s promise of salvation through his Son Jesus then for God’s sake – Let them!!!!.  Get with you children’s pastor and let him/her help you determine if your kids faith is based on the right gospel or not. If not, they can clarify it for them.

So much more can be said here but the simple truth is folks, your kids have a natural ability that we lost as we grew up – it’s called Believing!   Let them keep it as long as possible.  Cheer them on for their faith and help them make it stronger by keeping them in church and modeling it at home.  In other words, be a kid too and let your faith shine in front of your kids. 

It’s ok to believe!!!

Brian

Brian Holt was called into and served in children's ministry for over 20 years. Brian had the privilege to lead in children's ministries ranging from mega-church to plant church size. Brian changed roles in his church and now serves as the Care Pastor at Rock Creek Church in Prosper, Texas overseeing the Care and Support ministries of the church. Brian has been married to his lovely wife Amy for over 24 years and they have 5 amazing kids. Brian's passion is to see every man, woman and child fall in love with Jesus and become one of his devout followers, transforming their lives in the process to be more like Him everyday.

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  • SonShine

    Believing
    Last Wed I attended my granddaughter’s chapel as she was singing. What I was not prepared for but delighted to encounter was the devotional given by one of the Admins. His talk “what do you think heaven will be like?” he visited every classroom and gathered answers and shared that complete with a “home grown made ” video made by the kids. The one that I remember most was the kid who said heaven will have “squishy-squashy houses” which you can pick up and put in your pocket when you want to move and when you get to Your new place take it out and pop it open. WOW..what a great picture. He said that we “older” folks need to lighten up…heaven is not boring! That is the creativity of a child and why they can believe so easily. So what is heaven in your eyes? ‘been pondering that I can tell y ou!