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Hurry Up and Wait!

Hurry up and wait. That’s a phrase that often echos in my mind as I sit at an airport gate. But during the holidays the phrase has taken on a slightly new meaning to me. A recent experience reminded me of a truth so simple but one so easy to forget.


Hurry up and wait. That’s a phrase that often echos in my mind as I sit at an airport gate. But during the holidays the phrase has taken on a slightly new meaning to me. A recent experience reminded me of a truth so simple but one so easy to forget.

In a particular relational situation we had come to an impasse. Both of us held strong opinions and both had good reasons why our different conclusions were valid. Does that sound familiar?

As a person bent toward action it would have been my natural style to fire off another rather direct and confrontational email. Thankfully, I believe, the Spirit slowed me down with the thought “wait, take time to pray.” In a word, “hurry up and wait.” In so many situations, God is working on each person and His work is often slower than my hurried American demand of instant results.

Several days later, in God’s right time, and without my taking any further action, the issue resolved in a positive way without conflict. I was reminded (and inwardly rebuked) of how important it is to stop, pray and allow time for God to work in me or in others. Hurry up and wait on Him.

Jesus’ example of taking extended times to pray, especially with significant decisions ahead of Him, (Luke 6:12, Luke 22:39) models our dependence upon prayer and allowing time to be alone with God for wisdom and for His work in all concerned.

I’m not very good at waiting, but as a result of my recent experience I’m challenged in 2011 to remember to “hurry up and wait” so that I may stay better “in step with the Spirit.”

Gwynne Johnson currently serves on the Board of Entrust, Inc., an international education and training mission where she authored the Entrust curriculum, Developing a Discerning Heart. She recently served as Co-Chair of the training project, Christian Women in Partnership, Russia and as Senior Director of Women's Ministry at Stonebriar Community Church in Frisco, Texas. Gwynne has a M.A. in Biblical Studies from Dallas Theological Seminary. She currently lives in Huntsville, Texas with her husband of 58 years, Don. She works part-time in her daughter and granddaughter's bakery "The Best Box Ever," where she gets paid in cookies.

3 Comments

  • Dianne Miller

    wise words

    such good advice for action oriented people…just step back and read the email exchanges before responding has been one way I hurry up and wait…thanks for the reminder Gwynne…

  • Sharifa Stevens

    I’m often sooo reactionary.

    I'm often sooo reactionary. God is teaching me (though I'm stubborn, so I learn the hard way) the value of silence (Proverbs 17:28 is my go-to!) and leaning on Him.

  • Gwynne Johnson

    Love that verse!
    That verse reminds me of the contemporary “joke” that says “It is better to be silent and be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.” Thanks for the reference!