Halloween is here and soon our streets will be lined with little figures dressed out in the latest super hero costumes. Aww the wonder of childhood make-believe! The highest form our imagination takes is pretending to be the one who saves the day. True heroes do not bully, rape, pillage, or take advantage of those weaker than themselves.  They are kind, compassionate, generous, and protective. So how does someone go from being the one who needs protection to becoming the hero who protects? It is true that it is easier to build a healthy adult than it is to mend a broken one.  It would be so wonderful if trusting…