The Velveteen Christian

Our world is made up of a constant cacophony of voices. Truth, lies, myths, imaginations, and opinions fill our world with dissidence and confusion. We have information overload. It is difficult to discern who can be trusted because of the spin, the agendas, the omitted facts or the inserted insinuations that twist and distort.

When I think of celebrating “Easter” once again after over fifty years, my heart is moved to get it right this time. To REALLY celebrate! As I have been praying about this, the Lord reminded me of my favorite story, the Velveteen Rabbit. I reflected on the conversation between Horse and Rabbit about becoming real.

"What is REAL?" asked the Rabbit one day, . . . "Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?"

Real isn't how you are made,' said the Skin Horse. 'It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.'

'Does it hurt?' asked the Rabbit.

'Sometimes,' said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. 'When you are Real you don't mind being hurt.'

'Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,' he asked, 'or bit by bit?'

'It doesn't happen all at once,' said the Skin Horse. 'You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand.”   
Margery Williams, The Velveteen Rabbit

I want to be real. I want the children I teach to want to be real. I don’t want us to be those followers of Christ who break easily, have sharp edges, who need to be carefully kept.

“Remember,” Jesus said at the Last supper. We need to do just that. We need to remember our Velveteen Savior who loved us so much that He spread out both arms. Not to get a big self-satisfying hug, but to die for us.  

We need to remember one of the last lessons He taught: “I give you a new commandment—to love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” John 13:34 The NET Bible

Too many people today, especially children, believe they can decide what is real, that it is self-determined. Whether they believe it or not doesn’t change the fact that God is real. Jesus is real. Heaven and Hell are real. Jesus proved it by His incarnation, His death, His resurrection. His REAL love changed history forever.

What does it mean for us to be real?  When a child of God REALLY loves HIM for a long, long time, not just to ask for stuff or know the facts, but REALLY loves Him with all our heart and mind and soul and strength,then we become Real.

It won’t happen all at once. To become real could take a life time. For most of us by the time we are real most of our hair will have been loved off, and our eye sight will drop off. We will get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things won’t matter at all, because once we are Real we can't be ugly, except to those who aren’t real.  

Suzi Ciliberti works for Christar, a Missions Agency that plants churches among least-reached Asians worldwide. She served in Japan for two years as a single missionary and another nine with her husband and two children, then the family returned to the states. She and her husband have been serving in the US Mobilization Center since 2000. As a part of the Member Care Department, Suzi is consultant to families with children. She has been working as a children’s teacher since she was 17 and began her training under Child Evangelism Fellowship. She has taught in the church, as a school teacher for two years in a Christian elementary school, and as a speaker for adults training to work with children. She has also trained children, who are a part of families that work overseas, in their identity in Christ. She brings 44 years of teaching experience to her work. She loves creative writing as well as teaching and has found great fulfillment in combining the two as she blogs for Heartprints. She finds it a great privilege and joy to serve the Lord and His people. One of her favorite verses is Deuteronomy 4:10b, "Gather the people to Me, and I will let them hear My words, that they may learn to fear Me all the days they live on the earth, and that they may teach their children."